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مشاهدة النسخة كاملة : Those three simple words...


الصقر الجريح
06-07-2002, 10:42 AM
Those three simple words...

There are many things that we can do to perk up and strengthen our
interpersonal relationships. Yet the most effective involves the saying of
just three words. When spoken or conveyed, these statements have the power
to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that
have cooled.

The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.

*I'll be there.
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a
sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from
home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there."
Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are
truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We
are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and
spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

*I miss you.
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and
sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells
partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic
you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in
the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

*I respect you.
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that
another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were
adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends. This applies
to all interpersonal relationships.

*Maybe you're right.
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring
frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe your right" is the humility of
admitting, "maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have a heated
argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of
view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of
seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right"
can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have
the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.

*Please forgive me.
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit
their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults,
foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has
been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today
than he was yesterday.

*I thank you.
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the
companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily
courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their
many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of
friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

*Count on me.
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential
ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people.
Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be
steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there
indicating "you can count on me."

*Let me help.
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt
they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and
help.

*I understand you.
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person
accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little
ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing
your relationship. This applies to any relationship.

*Go for it.
We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to
your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird
they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person
only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them
to "go for it."

*I love you.
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone
that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The
need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your
children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words.
"I love you."

GOD BLESS YOU! (These are 3 words too, right?)
jaz004 jaz003

أبو الشباب
06-07-2002, 10:51 AM
thanks

thanks

thanks

three thank(s) for you ya الصقر الجريح :) jaz001




jaz004

الصقر الجريح
06-07-2002, 11:42 AM
Nothing I have done to be thanked for anyhow this is my treasure to have such reply which can push me to do more for this room.jaz005

أبو الشباب
07-07-2002, 08:37 AM
صقر ( منتدانا الغالي ) الجريح .....

please ...be aware (something) better than ( nothing) thank you ( 3 ) times again :)

jaz004

الصقر الجريح
07-07-2002, 08:47 AM
الله يصبحك بالخير.

واشكرك من كل قلبي وانا في خدمتكم جميعاً والي تآمرون فيه انا حاظرjaz004

أبو الشباب
07-07-2002, 08:55 AM
أبد يا الغالي ..... أنت ما قصرت .... طال عمرك

وكل ما نريد هو أن ( نتعاون ) في تعلم اللغة الانجليزية عن طريق المنتدى

أنا ( أحب اللغة الانجليزية ) كهواية ولست متخصص بها لذلك أتمنى أن أتعلم

الكثير و الكثير عن هذه اللغة ( العالمية ) و بمجهودك وبمجهود باقي الأخوة

والأخوات لدي أمل لتحقيق أمنيتي كما و سيستفيد ان شاءالله منكم كل عضو

يريد الاستفادة ،،،،، شكراً لاهتمامك وبارك الله فيك..... jaz004

الصقر الجريح
07-07-2002, 11:08 AM
الاخ الفاضل ابو الشباب انا من ناحيتي ما عندي اي مشكلة وبودي ان نبدأ من الاساس ويا حبذا نضع خطة مبدئية يقوم بتنفيذ مبادئها الاخوة الاعضاء الذين لهم او عندهم باك قرواند عن اللغة وإذا شفت إستعداد الشباب الذي سوف يشاركوننا فأنا مستعد لوضع خطة مبدئية وتناقش من قبل الاعضاء وعليها نبدأ مسيرتنا ويش تقوووووووووووووووووووووووووول وينك يا جمر الاهات بعد لا تبعدين خليك قريبة بعد وبسرعة ابي الرد من جميع الاخوة.jaz004

أبو الشباب
07-07-2002, 11:21 AM
السلام والرحمة

أخي : الصقر الجريح

شكراً لمبادرتك الرائعة و فعلاً سنستفيد منك بارك الله فيكم جميعاً

وبالفعل يوجد حالياً team لا بأس به مكون من :ــ

جمر الآهات ، الهدواني ، صدى الحق ، شهد المعرفة ، و Dr.H و غيرهم...

وقد ناقشنا أنا والأخ Dr.H بعض الأفكار عندما كان المنتدى عبارة عن فكره

مطروحة للتصويت و قد لاقت الفكرة النجاح بفضل الله ثم بعدد الأصوات ..

ولكن للأسف أغلب من صوت على الفكرة لم يشاركوننا المواضيع ...لماذا؟؟ لا

أعلم ...... يبدو أن الاختبارات ويبدو أن الاجازة أيضاً سبب في هذا ،،المهم

أشكر لك اهتمامك وبأمكانك طرح أفكارك وسنناقشها جميعاً والله اسأل أن يوفق الجميع لما يحب ويرضى،،،،،


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